Spoiler alert – don’t flirt.
Because are you capable of it? Not of flirting, of course you can be suggestive and playful and what not, but can you bear to wait?
Especially being a magnet for people with avoidant attachment that will take anywhere between two days to forever to get back to you
…can you bear to wait?
If you can, I’m here to learn.
Personally, I’m going to wait to get so busy I don’t have time to fret, then maybe I can get back in the game.
Until then, banter, go back to the hole you were dug out of. Aqseer
PS – if you don’t know what these terms mean, or you have a sense of your attachment style but would like to take a test and track it over time, check this out.
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