Check-list to avoid emotional incest

Today I learnt of this term “emotional incest.” I looked it up on Quora to see if it was relevant to blog about – and I saw some questions about whether this “really” was incest because incest is necessarily sexual … Read More

My piece on individuation for The Health Collective

Extract from the full piece on The Health Collective’s website, here. …..Recall that the dyad, or the blissful union of mother and child is broken around age 6 by the child’s ability to perceive the father, the word “no” and … Read More

Flirting tips for y’all with anxious attachment

Spoiler alert – don’t flirt. Because are you capable of it? Not of flirting, of course you can be suggestive and playful and what not, but can you bear to wait? Especially being a magnet for people with avoidant attachment … Read More