The general’s daughter

is beyond human* comprehension. you expect a beta, you’re met with an alpha. every time. gender? what gender? she grew up climbing trees, you’re better off judging her by her medal count than her sex organs. she’s stylish as hell … Read More

My piece on individuation for The Health Collective

Extract from the full piece on The Health Collective’s website, here. …..Recall that the dyad, or the blissful union of mother and child is broken around age 6 by the child’s ability to perceive the father, the word “no” and … Read More

Flirting tips for y’all with anxious attachment

Spoiler alert – don’t flirt. Because are you capable of it? Not of flirting, of course you can be suggestive and playful and what not, but can you bear to wait? Especially being a magnet for people with avoidant attachment … Read More